So I was working on my projects and keep re-thinking if it’s good enough.
I caught myself saying, I’m being too specific.
And an insight came over me.
I hear myself saying.
“There is no such thing as perfections. Its all about preferences.”
To please myself, I need to know what I prefer and stick to it.
Nobody else’s preferences matter.
Because this is my project, my creation, and my passion.
Pleasing myself, means its perfect to me.
I create to express my own beingness.
Being versus perfection, does not exist.
So many people and projects has flaws, but because its preferred by the person created.
Everyone else has to put up with it, because its not their art, not their creation, not their project and not their passion and life goals.
What do you put up with, because of this?
Can you claim your own imperfections and flaws and be yourself anyway?
Do your goals and project your way?
Take your sweet darn time anyway?
If you prefer your life in a certain way and other people keep interrupting you with some negativity. It is up to them anyway?
Or is it up to you in all ways, because its your preferences. Not theirs.
Its your project. Its your passion. Its your channel. Its your page. Its your art. Its your life goals.
Who are they anyway to control the level of your perfection and preferences.
What do they have to show for themselves?
Are they a mentor?
Are they investing love, light and support into your work?
Are they invested in seeing you grow or fail?
People around you may distract you with their insecurities and point fingers to you because you dare to create, dare to feel alive, dare to feel your desires, and dare to believe in yourself.
So don’t let their insecurities, distractions and hopelessness take away your passion, imperfections, process, journey and creativity to accomplish something in your own life.
Accept their negative behaviours and total negative presence and move along to the next step in your action list to keep prioritizing what you can control and what you can do.
Which is turning a deaf ear to the haters who have no personal mission, ambition or goals. Put your energy, attention and mind in your projects and passion. Keep creating, building, painting, writing, training, doing all the things considered propelling you to your style of perfection and flawlessness. Because this is your life. You can design, create, imbue, paint it with anything you prefer. Other people have their own lives to mess with. When they mess with yours, its sparkly, pretty, attractive, and don’t let them destroy it with their false level of not good enough, false level of imperfection, false level of backhanded compliments.
What DO YOU LIKE? and IGNORE THE OTHER PREFERENCES.
THIS IS YOURS. TOTALLY YOUR OWN BABY.
DONT LET OTHER PEOPLE HIJACK YOUR BABY.
Control your Preferences and You can control your Process & Progress.
You are perfect. Go KICK ASS!
My good vibes and good love